Marriage

Impediments to marriage

First, both people must be capable of being married and free of any impediment (obstacle) that would prevent marriage. Some impediments to marriage include:

  • Age: Both persons need to be old enough to contract marriage according to the local civil laws. (The Church has a minimum age requirement as well; see canon 1083.)
  • Previous marriage: You cannot marry someone else if you are already married. This most common impediment to marriage is discussed more below.
  • Relatives: You cannot marry someone who is already your relative (canons 1091-1094).
  • Reason: Anyone who is incapable of understanding what marriage is and the responsibilities that come with it (because of mental impairment, for instance) cannot enter marriage (canon 1095).
  • Fear: No one can be forced into marriage, either directly or because of some "grave fear" (canon 1103).

This is not an exhaustive list. It is ultimately up to your pastor to determine whether there are any impediments to your marriage.

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"What are the rules and requirements for a valid Catholic wedding"?

There are 3 basic requirements for a valid Catholic wedding:
  • The couple must be capable of being married, that is, they must be a woman and a man who are free of any impediment that would prevent marriage.
  • The couple must give their consent to be married - that is, by an act of their will they irrevocably give and accept one another in order to establish marriage (Canon 1057).
  • They must follow the canonical form for marriage - that is, they must be married according to the laws of the Church so that the Church and the wider community will be certain about the validity of their marriage.